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Reemergence
REEMERGENCE I have a lot to say. At least three years’ worth. Over the next…
The Polyamorous Holiday Juggle: Balancing Love, Time, and Tradition
“The holidays aren’t about perfection; they’re about connection. In polyamory, just as in life, it’s…
No More Tantrums: Growing Up in a Polyamorous World
Just because you’re feeling left out doesn’t give you the right to act like a…
The Raw Truth About Honest Communication in Relationships
Relationships—whether they’re familial, platonic, or romantic—require trust. And not just the warm, fuzzy kind of…
When you want to move from Swinging to polyamory
It’s natural and okay to have uncomfortable and difficult feelings like jealousy while navigating polyamorous…
Navigating Hierarchies in Polyamorous Relationships
…while hierarchies can provide a sense of security, they can also create feelings of neglect…
Embracing Being a “Hinge” Partner in Polyamorous Relationships
In the intricate web of Polyamory, a Hinge partner occupies a unique position. They are…
Navigating NRE (New Relationship Energy) in Your Polyamorous Relationships
Seeing your partner swept up in NRE can be frustrating no matter how long you’ve…
“Laying Down The Law” in Your Non-monogamous Relationships
Putting hard and fast rules on your partner and relationships can restrict yourself, your partner,…
Taking Your ENM Relationship to Another Level
Taking your non-monogamous relationship to a different level has the potential to provide an opportunity…
Hey Jealousy
I had this war going on inside of me where I wanted so desperately to…
What’s good For the Goose is Good For the Gander
Growth means being willing to honestly explore our “Darkness”, our vulnerabilities, our fears, our challenges;…
Grief and Relationships
One thing the grief of losing my brother and the grief of losing whatever I…
Monogamy vs Polyamory
Whether you are monogamous or polyamorous, it is important we find partners who align with…
8 Common Misconceptions about Polyamory
Some of these misconceptions come from those who are monogamous and cannot wrap their heads…
So You think You’re ready to Open Up Your relationship
So, You Think You’re Ready To Open Up Your Relationship There are a few questions…
Letting Polyamorous Relationships Take Their Natural Course
All too often, couples start out on a journey of polyamory with a clear vision…
Coming Out to Family and Friends
I wanted to share the questions with those of you who are struggling with the…
Ready or Not! I’m coming out!
“Many will tell you that to live as a polyamorist in a monogamous relationship is…
Navigating through New Relationship Energy (NRE) in Polyamorous Relationships
In Polyamorous relationships, New Relationship Energy can deal a nasty blow to existing romantic relationships…
The Truths Behind “Happily Ever After” in Polyamorous Relationships
Many people go into the world of polyamory wearing rose-colored glasses. It doesn’t matter the…
Metamour Misery in Polyamorous Relationships
Having an awesome metamour whom you like, and respect can go a long way when…
Cheater, Cheater: Is There Such Thing as Cheating in Consensual Non-Monogamous Relationships?
Healthy relationships are built on trust. Non-monogamous relationships especially take a great deal of trust….
Compersion, Compersion, Compersion… Another F**king Blog About Compersion
“Compersion is a word the Polyamory Community adopted. In traditional “monogamous” communities; Compersion means to…
Supporting Your Polyamorous Partners in Times of Heartache
The idea of compersion in polyamorous relationships is that you receive/feel joy when your partner(s)…
The Entanglement of Self-Worth in Our Relationship Status
How many of us have had our own self-worth entangled in our relationship status at…
Boundaries People! Boundaries!: A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Your Relationships
You don’t owe anyone anything else. You do not have to start explaining why you…
Great Expectations: Setting Expectations Within Our Relationships
When we are clear on our own expectations, we are better equipped to have conversations…