“The holidays aren’t about perfection; they’re about connection. In polyamory, just as in life, it’s not about being everything to everyone—it’s about finding balance, embracing vulnerability, and making space for the love that truly matters.”
The Polyamorous Holiday Juggle: Balancing Love, Time, and Tradition Read More »
Just because you’re feeling left out doesn’t give you the right to act like a petulant teen. It’s selfish to expect your partner to ditch their other relationships just because you’re feeling insecure.
No More Tantrums: Growing Up in a Polyamorous World Read More »
Relationships—whether they’re familial, platonic, or romantic—require trust. And not just the warm, fuzzy kind of trust. I’m talking about the gritty, real-deal trust where you’re honest with each other, no matter how uncomfortable it gets.
The Raw Truth About Honest Communication in Relationships Read More »
It’s natural and okay to have uncomfortable and difficult feelings like jealousy while navigating polyamorous relationships. It is all about how you handle those feelings and what you do as a result that can make or break your relationships and hearts.
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…while hierarchies can provide a sense of security, they can also create feelings of neglect and resentment…
Navigating Hierarchies in Polyamorous Relationships Read More »
In the intricate web of Polyamory, a Hinge partner occupies a unique position. They are the central figure, the bridge between two or more partners…This is a role of great responsibility, one that demands empathy, honesty, a deep commitment to communication, and above all, self-awareness.
Embracing Being a “Hinge” Partner in Polyamorous Relationships Read More »
Seeing your partner swept up in NRE can be frustrating no matter how long you’ve been polyamorous. If you’re relatively new to polyamory, it can be agonizing.
Navigating NRE (New Relationship Energy) in Your Polyamorous Relationships Read More »
Putting hard and fast rules on your partner and relationships can restrict yourself, your partner, and your relationship. They can also cause harm to other partners whether you intend to or not.
“Laying Down The Law” in Your Non-monogamous Relationships Read More »
Taking your non-monogamous relationship to a different level has the potential to provide an opportunity to push yourself out of your comfort zone and into a whole new level of emotional, physical, and even spiritual pleasure that you never dreamed possible.
It also has the potential to become very ugly and very messy very quickly.
Taking Your ENM Relationship to Another Level Read More »
I had this war going on inside of me where I wanted so desperately to feel compersion and did not want to give up, but at the same time, I was so terrified of not matching up to any of John’s girlfriends. I was terrified he wanted to be with them more than me. I was convinced he was going to leave me. He also battled with the same fears.